There are times Mandy Lai wonders what life would have been like if she chose to be a marriage commissioner. Would she have been more content?
After all, that’s the happiest part of a relationship – when two people fall in love and bring their lives together.
Life is fluid. Neither fortunes nor flowers last forever. The fact of the matter is many marriages end in divorce. When this happens, there are a lot of intense emotions. It’s a hard part of life.
That is where Mandy’s instincts kick in. She understands the true value of the services she provides.
Her process is to inject calmness, unpack issues and provide direction.
Her goal is to ensure clients don’t lose sight of their objectives. She guides them to make rational decisions. When clients act on bitterness, they tend to make things worse.
She doesn’t consider herself a hired gun. She educates her clients to think about the big picture and what really matters to them. That helps open the door to practical solutions.
Other times, when an ex-spouse becomes unreasonable, she leans in and is ready to fight.
Mandy likes to strategize. She’s an expert at deduction. She enjoys gathering evidence to prove facts. This takes experience and passion. When you meet Mandy, you will instantly recognize both.
Mandy never loses sight of the ultimate goal, which is to help the family move forward with their new life. When they do, Mandy knows she has done her job well and has chosen the right profession.