If you can make your relationship work, you should. If you have exhausted all avenues to fix it, separation may be your best alternative. But be prepared. This is going to be a bumpy road. You will get beyond it.
Our clients often tell us that they wished they hired a lawyer earlier. We would rather help you navigate a successful separation than litigate a nasty divorce.
If it does get ugly, we can do that too, but it really takes a toll on people and their bank accounts.